Your softness is where your strength has been hiding

You’ve been taught that strength means control.
That being confident means holding it all together.
That being powerful means never needing anyone.

But you and I both know — that kind of strength is exhausting.

It pulls you out of your body, out of your heart, and into a constant hum of “doing.”
It disconnects you from your softness, your intuition, your aliveness.

And none of that is your true feminine essence.

Your real essence lives quietly inside you.
It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t force. It doesn’t demand.

It breathes.
It listens.
It moves through you like water — steady, alive, organic.

This is the essence that brings you home to yourself.
It’s the current of the Feminine — the life-giving force that nourishes everything it touches.

It’s not energy over.
It’s energy through.
It’s the essence of connection, presence, and grace.

And yes… this is the part of you the world taught you to hide.
To tone down. To distrust.
But she’s still there — pulsing beneath the surface, whispering softly:

“You’ve always been enough.”

A Gentle Way to Reconnect with Your Feminine Essence

Next time you feel small, unseen, or unsure, try this:

1.     Take a slow breath. Feel it move through your belly and heart.

2.     Notice where you’re holding tension. Soften there.

3.     Ask yourself: “What would feel kind to me right now?”

4.     Move gently. Stretch, walk, sway, or dance — let your body lead.

5.     Speak to yourself softly:

o   “I am allowed to slow down.”

o   “I am allowed to feel.”

o   “I am allowed to take up space.”